Jul 17, - Avoid onion er God. Do meditation. You cannot practically rid your mind of sexual thoughts but yes, you can keep them to a manageable level where they don't interfere with your work/studies or manipulate you into doing something which might turn out to be adverse. Sexual thoughts aren't to control my mind to avoid sexual thoughts. Feb 27, - How to Control Your Urge to Have Sex? Acceptance. The first step to control your sexual urges is to accept that there is no shame in feeling this way. Triggers. The next step to controlling your sexual feelings is to know what sets them off. Will Power. Transmutation. Exercise. Seek Help.