Jun 1, - Does it make sense to confess your sin to your spouse and drag him/her or erased the porn history on our computers, its adultery by God's definition When we've sinned sexually against her, our wife is the last person on. Jul 25, - "I am married, rather begrudgingly, to a man who no longer makes me feel anything," writes Shelly in her blog, Confessions of a Wayward Wife. blogging when she's alone in the house and always deleting her browsing history. . people who love their spouses but have discreet sexual fun with others.